An emphasis on extrinsic over intrinsic motivation can have negative effects on learning outcomes. They may be considered additive rather than conflicting.
Replace trophy obsession with learning relics: creations that solve real problems, build pride, and nurture entrepreneurial, joyful, zero-stress learning.
Parents buy expensive toys for kids, but don't allow them to play with them do the school projects for them, thus killing their curiosity and independence.
Trophies in competitions and A grades in academic subjects do not define a child's success or competence as much as their skills and emotional intelligence.
Even as children come under pressure to perform in competitions, it can also be stressful for parents; therefore, parental self-care now assumes importance.
Children have to be taught to have a perspective on failure and success. They must not equate their self-worth with A grades in exams and winning competitions.
Perfect parenting can be stressful for parents, as well as cause mental health problems in children. Parents must prioritise self-care & spend time with kids.
Trophy syndrome begins at home when parents don't explain why a child must do something. Instead they give rewards for conformity. Very soon it becomes a habit.
Parents in Western nations are more likely to experience burnout due to emphasis on individualism while in Asia & Africa parenting is supported by community.
Setting high expectations for children can be damaging to them. It may lead to withdrawal, lower their self-esteem, heightened anxiety and emotional distress.
Winning competitions requires training & preparation as well as hard-working parents. Biological advantages are not sufficient without an enabling environment.
Participating in competitions can provide a different set of experiences for teenage boys and girls. Competition to excel is proven to benefit both genders.
New studies indicate that Gen Z parents don't find reading to children enjoyable. But does reading aloud to children matter in terms of literacy & test scores?
Our education system is still built on conformity and discipline, not allowing children to question, explore, and encourage curiosity, thus lacking enterprise.
Education should revive cultural values of selfless service to humanity & nature, which were integral to traditional society but are fading in modern systems.
Entrepreneurship cannot be created by giving students training. It can thrive only when children develop curiosity, thinking skills, and a desire to learn.
Literature helps students understand the complex nuances of family relationships. Stories reveal how pride, ego, and unresolved emotions damage family bonds.
There are two differing perceptions about education- one is that it brings out what already inherent while Instruction and experience play a nurturing role.
The research work of Laurent Simons intersects medicine, chemistry, artificial intelligence and physics to ensure longer and healthier life spans for humankind.
Parenting shapes marks, confidence, behaviour and dreams. Support, rules and communication matter. Work with parents, not against them, to grow strong.
Warm, balanced parenting reduces stress and builds confidence and kindness. Connection matters more than perfection in raising strong, happy children.
Teacher–parent partnership improves learning and behaviour. Inclusive involvement, empathy and collaboration create stronger school communities.
Leadership alignment, cultural sensitivity, equity and courageous decisions build strong family–school partnerships and improve student success.
Kind Circle, HDFC Parivartan, Tata Pankh, GSK Scholars & Shri Tulsi Tanti Scholarships support deserving students with financial aid. Apply before deadlines.
Parenting in an AI Age means nurturing aspiration, inner motivation, healthy competition, and entrepreneurship through support, resilience and value.
