Parenting is where it all begins. The way we motivate children—especially in their formative years—sets the tone for their future. Unfortunately, the “trophy syndrome” is becoming common. Here, rewards replace real understanding.The Shift from Intrinsic to Extrinsic MotivationIt often starts innocently. A toddler refuses milk, and instead of explaining its benefits, we say, “Drink your milk and I’ll give you chocolate.” Over time, the child drinks milk for the chocolate, not for at...

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